To leave a legacy:
These are what I want to be remembered for—my legacy. These too will what describes my spirituality.
I want to see myself to become more spiritual and closer to God rather than religious.
I’ll strive to understand more about spirituality and be closer to God. The truth is I do no longer believe in religion. For me, religion is a group of people who thought they are doing things in Godly ways and make rules on the number of prayers that must be done in a day, on how people should behave according to God’s eye and so on and on.
Hey, there a lot of people who had unfortunate childhood which cause them to act and live the way they are now. And what religions do, they cast out or punish people who do not follow God’s rule according to what the holy scripture says. What’s worse, they make the person feel so bad and not loved by God because of the wrongdoings they consciously or unconsciously did.
I’ll site an example, Read More »
To love:
These are those I want for my relational, social and emotional life.
1. Love myself more.
I can not give what I do not have. I can not give love If I do not have love for myself. I believe I may be able to give love more to others when I know how will I love myself. I will love myself more so I can contribute to peace and happiness to others.
2. Enjoy great relationships with all members of my family.
3. Enjoy outstanding relationship with my love partner, grow beautifully and lovingly together.
4. Be one of the best friend a person could ever have
5. Learn more about personhood and behavioural science so I can understand others and relate/deal with them better.
6. Shift my perception about people. I will see them from a different lens.
I will work out on my paradigms and will shift how I look at other people. I will see others as more loving and kinder. Read More »
To learn
These are those I want to learn and accomplish. These are the skills, talents and abilities that I want to add for myself so it will me help me have, be or do whatever it is that listed here.
1. For 2010, I want to automate things so time-taking tasks will be shortened after all we only have 24 hours per day. I would like to learn and be an expert in computer programming. As such, I would like to be an expert in
- html,
- css,
- javascript,
- jquery,
- php,
- mySQL and related mysql query and
- related topics.
2. I also want to gain additional skills in training and lecturing.
I want that my audiences are alive and not bored or sleepy during my lectures. I will think of methodologies that will make them engage in the lectures and be more interactive. More important, I want my audience to understand and absorb what I am talking about. It is my responsibility to make them understand what I am trying to point out or what I am trying to convey . I want them to benefit from the lectures I am delivering. I want it that my topics are of benefit to the attendees.
3. In relation to training and lecturing, I’ll join a ToastMaster’s club or similar-purposed club. Read More »
To live:
These are those I want for my physical health and economic condition and finances.
For my physical health
- Normal and healthy BMI (Body Mass Index)
- 50 kilos in weight
- A body measurement of 36-23-36 (wink…wink)
- Being able to walk or run at least 1hour without stopping. This is for my cardio.
- Perfect digestive system —cured of my acidity and dyspepsia
- Healed ear drums and no buzzing in my ears.
- Always eat a perfect and balance diet.
I want to replace my mountaineering hobby with a hobby which will engage me physically. For this 2010, I will join running clubs and be engaged in Fun Run activities.
For my economic condition and finances including the materials things I would like to have…(I’ll start doing or establishing some or most of them this 2010…) Read More »
I wrote about Sense of Significance in one of my blog articles. This article is somewhat related to it.
A friend lent me an Audi Book (Audio CD). It is about 101 Dreams.
The way I understand it, DREAMS boils down to life’s purpose being dreams as our heart’s yearnings and desires.
Pause…what are these yearnings? What are these desires? What are these heart’s longing? Aren’t they what the so-called DREAMS?
It said, whatever that we want or we dreamed of we must write it down. Whatever that make us feel complete and whatever that will make us feel satisfied we must write it down. It is said that we list down the 101 Dreams we want and achieve them or get while we are alive.
I did some tweaking to it. Yes, while numbering them from 1 to 101 I grouped them into this…
“To live, to learn, to love and to leave a legacy.” Read More »
